Whatyagonnado?
Possibly my favorite line in the world – because I use it so often – but I was reading Carolyn Hax in the Sunday paper and she finished one of her advice columns with What are you going to do? Ha! A woman had written in that she is with someone who lacks initiative so she does all the initiating – she said her friends tell her she’s supposed to lay low and make him work for it. Carolyn said you be yourself and see how that works, it doesn’t work, modify, but then you see observe how he is when he is himself. Love her.