Know what you want and how to ask for it
My colleague and I met for the morning to talk about business and then we had lunch and late in the afternoon we watched, How Do You Know with Reese Witherspoon and Paul Rund. A therapist in the movie says the end all be all of what he’s learned from his clients is that you need to know what you want and be able to ask for it. It took me 48 years to do that and when I did figure it out I said I wanted to live in New Orleans and adopt a child.
So now if I complain, someone needs to hit my head with a brick.
But meanwhile, I realize the importance of many different kinds of people in my life and Tin’s life. Like a friend who will explains the difference between a boy and a girl’s anatomy. And understanding different music from different musicians. And having those around us that love and want to support us in mysterious ways.
To all of this I want to know now not how to make money but how to make a difference and I’m offering that question up to the universe because I think it has an answer for me.