We passed us a good time Mom!

I am in this NY hotel room just pouring over photographs of my mother. I’m glad they are all about joy.

Valentines Day with Beth and Kerry – Tatjana is taking the photo:

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The Turkish party at the LaLa where Mom said Laurie dressed as a Turk reminded her of Barry, her lovah!

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Breakfast at Bakery Cafe with Yusuf, a real live hunky Turk

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Sitting on the front porch of the LaLa with her brothers and sister

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Thanksgiving three years ago dressed up like pilgrims and Indians

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More costuming on Thanksgiving

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Tatjana’s birthday party (Beth on the left) – T is holding the book on Turkey mom gave her.

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Holding court with our friends – the “belt buckle” story!

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Jo rode her motorcycle over to blow dry our hair for New Year’s Eve a few years ago

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Chatting on the front porch with her dear buddy Ivette – Endymion about to start

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Closing day party when I bought the LaLa – 2005.

6 Responses to “We passed us a good time Mom!”

  1. Alice Says:

    A lovely set of memories. This is the way to remember your mother, who was a beautiful lady by the way.

  2. Rachel Says:

    Indeed she was Alice – thanks.

  3. Ivette Says:

    oh, that Pat…¡Que tremenda!!!! I’m sooooo glad that we got to talk, drink, and smoke together. And moreover, that we share the islands. Mucho amor y mucha tranquilidad…Que el espíritu este en pleno reposo. un abrazo, Ivette

  4. Rachel Says:

    Un gran besote a ti!

  5. Ivette Says:

    Querida Rachel,

    ¿cómo te estás sintiendo? El duelo que le escribiste a Pat está lleno de emociones tan bellas, gracias por compartirlo. Cada vez que leo lo que escribes sólo recuerdo cómo a ella le encantaba hablar conmigo de sus tiempos en Puerto Rico y Cuba. También recuerdo muy bien cuando se estaba quedándose en tu casa (te habías ido de viaje) y la fui a visitar para hablar y no quería que yo me fuera. I was her caribbean buddy!
    envíame tu número de teléfono. un abrazo.

  6. Rachel Says:

    I miss her Ivette but the last seven months – five of which she has been hospitalized with tubes keeping her alive – have been so harrowing that I just feel this tremendous relief yet an overwhelming sadness that I can’t go see her, kiss her, talk to her. In the end, as different as we were in life, we were cut from the same cloth – free spirits – her beauty and charm aside, it is that free spiritedness in her that I will miss the most. She always said that you were such a unique person, so interesting – she was swept away by your Island charm. I’ll email my number to your email.

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